Life Moves Pretty Fast
“Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.” ― Ferris Bueller It's so true. Last week I was checking out my many rose bushes and wondering when they would bloom. They seem late this year. A few days later I was outside chasing one of my little dogs. She is losing her hearing and sight, but I swear her little legs are running faster than ever. It's never been like her to run off. While I was running after her (or more like hobbling and limping) I noticed a couple of bushes with a few roses. After I got the pup settled and inside, I went back out to cut a few roses. The bees even took pity on me and allowed me to cut some of their sage blossoms. I placed the pretty little vase from my Mother's collection by a few Paris mementos.

Hello Alexandra, Thanks for checking in. First of all, I think it is important to acknowledge that the script was written in the late 1940's and early 1950's, a very different time for women. The character Margot, was ahead of her time as she put her career ahead of her relationships, and in this scene she is reflecting. Do I really believe that? Yes and no is my answer, and an answer you may not want to hear. I have been living alone for 18 years now, as I wanted to put my personal projects and goals ahead of my relationships. In my daily life, and especially when I am in the thick of a project and met my accomplishments, I know I made the right decision. However, every so often I look back and reflect in my relationships (a marriage and later a significant other) and wondered since I am a woman, perhaps I should have been able to do it all, and have it all. Obviously, a woman does not "need" a man, but I think if we remove the "man" from the sentence and just put in "relationships" (friends and family), these special relationships add and enhance being a woman.
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